Sunday, November 11, 2012
Seth prayed The Prayer!
And asked Jesus into his heart. He's sealed! For all eternity!
I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.Luke 15:7
And Ryan is rejoicing in heaven!
Monday, July 30, 2012
The Last 7 Months!
Hello! August 2012
I want to share an overview of what’s been going on with us the last 7 months.
RVA has 3 terms each school year. We missed 1st term from Sept-Nov. But we did experience 2nd term (Jan-Mar) and 3rd term (May-Jul). Arriving in December with the holidays, jet-lag, and moving into a new house was exhausting. I began my new job on December 30, went from being a full time mom to a full time working mom. I love it. God used the last 2 years to prepare me. I worried I wouldn’t have the stamina I needed. But He supplies. I wake up ready to work, feeling clear headed, and even excited. My free time was spent unpacking, transporting the remainder of my household from Nairobi to RVA, getting the house painted, hanging curtains, stocking the pantry, and sleeping. I was driven, I wanted to be moved in by April and we were.
For my kids, 2nd term involved the boys going to school, making new friends, roaming the campus, and coming home late for dinner. Frequently I would hear ‘mom, I don’t ever want to leave, move again, can we stay here forever.’ God didn’t just call me, he called my whole family to return to our Kenyan home. I would ask the kids ‘Can you believe we are actually here?’
Chloe attended pre-school twice a week. She doesn’t deal well with transitions and not having mommy home was hard on her. She wanted to be home when I came home and not out playing. She was intimidated by the size of the campus. She is the only one that occasionally talks about our life in Michigan. I gave her the time and space she needed to be home. I took her for walks everywhere and then would ask her to lead the way home. It was a goofy game. She did learn how to get home from Ethan’s house on her own, and added other friend’s houses to the list. Now she goes out and isn’t anxious. My house is connected to Student health by one door. She comes to visit daily. Esther, the secretary, commandeers her to roll cotton balls and then pays her with a pop-cycle. Seth and Chloe often play dominoes in the sitting area. Ours is the only office on campus with a fireplace in the lobby and kids will hang out just to warm up.
Our time off in April was spent resting, updating charts at Student Health, organizing my garage sale stash, and selling home school books. We did get away for a week to Sunrise Acres, cottages on a farm, with two other families. Ryan and I took the kids to Sunrise Acres many times to rest and regroup as a family. We needed to revisit it and experience the joy and sadness of what we had and how that has changed.
Third term was intense. Physicals are required for anyone leaving Africa. We did physicals on all 90 seniors, other students and families who were going on Home Assignment (furlough), or leaving permanently. I now know how to do eye charts, hearing tests, lab work, and physical stats. Each person got updated on their immunizations and received a TB skin test. Several students and staff turned up with a positive reaction. I soon took over the care and treatment of these folks. Each one got a chest x-ray, a family history, and received 9 months of treatment. None of them had active (contagious) TB. Instead it’s latent TB which means at some time they experienced a strong exposure to TB and their bodies made antibodies. The TB skin test reacts to those antibodies. They are not contagious, but we don’t want them to develop active TB. The 9 months of drug therapy treats their latent TB and they should never develop active TB. I have become quite knowledgeable about TB, as you can see. I counseled each person about TB and the medications. To finish such a project well, boosted my confidence.
My kids and I all struggled emotionally. Coming in ½ way through the school year was tough. Students and adults had their friends. All were open to us but finding time to get to know people is tough. We experienced loneliness, anger, and disappointment. Thankfully God placed counselors and other supportive people around us to help us navigate how much our lives have changed without Ryan.
I shared in a chapel for junior and senior high, about being a servant. Ryan had the spiritual gift of being a servant. The characteristics I saw in Ryan that equipped him to be a servant were humility, deep convictions, commitment, and doing everything with excellence. I showed them a 5 minute video of Ryan being a servant as a husband, father, and aircraft mechanic. I had their complete attention, they met my husband, my kid’s father, and experienced a bit of what our life used to look like. Many had no idea who I was or where my kid’s dad was. That chapel helped me fill in the blanks. For the next week, students thanked me for sharing, gave me hugs with no explanation, and just greeted me with understanding on the sidewalks. They now knew who Mrs. Williams is and about her journey with God through grief. I was truly blessed.
Graduation was amazing. Too finally meet many of the parents of the boarding seniors helped put more pieces of the puzzle in place. I saw how close the senior class is, how much most are going to miss RVA and Africa, and how broad their world view is. I felt truly concerned for them as they go to colleges that won’t understand them. These men and women are not materialistic, selfish, or disrespectful. They are world-changers, with something about them that attract or repel people because others won’t know what to make of them. It is God raising kids to be different. Through the ceremony I gained courage. To see the seniors turn out great after experiencing adversity, gave me courage that my kids too, will turn out great. I want my kids to graduate from RVA and have the whole experience of the adventures and spiritual influence that RVA brings.
First term begins the end of August and I feel prepared. Going to the coast for a week always helps. I have projects to do during the break at Student Health, but it is manageable. It’s just nice not to be on-call for a couple of weeks.
My verse for this season is from 2 Samuel 7:18,
“Who am I, O Sovereign Lord, and what is my family, that you have brought me this far?”
I see how hard the 5 of us are trying to grieve well and find Joy. But it’s only because we allow God to carry us, that we have come this far.
Be Blessed,
Dawn, Caleb, Levi, Seth, and Chloe
Wednesday, February 08, 2012
February at RVA
Hi Everybody,
We’ve been in our new home, in a new location, doing a new ministry at a new school for about six weeks.
New School for my kids
Rift Valley Academy (RVA)is suiting us just fine. My kids love the freedom of living inside a big fence with 450 other kids. RVA has 70 houses for the staff families to live in; it’s a big place. Each kid is adjusting to new friends and teachers. They love the after-school activities. Often at dinner time, we can’t eat because someone is missing. But it gets dark at 6:45 so they come home eventually, tired, happy and hungry.
New Ministry for me
I’m working full time as a school nurse at Student Health. So far, a bad head cold and a stomach bug have gone through the dorms and the families. To keep such illnesses from spreading, Student Health has guidelines for the dorms. Each dorm has dorm parents, kind of like an RD in college. If a kid has a fever over 100 degrees or other various symptoms, they can’t stay in the dorm. Student Health has room for 20 kids to sleep when they are sick. Often kids will come in for a few hours to get cold medicine and a nap, like missing a day of school in the States. Other times kids get sick in the middle of the night and need to come over to Student Health for the rest of the night. The nurses each have nights and weekends to be on-call for after hour illnesses.
That’s a brief explanation, but what I want you to know is that I like my new job. It’s challenging and very different than being a nurse in the states. I am getting to know kids as they come in to see a nurse. The staff are excellent and a great resource as I learn this new position. I don’t mind going into work and I like coming home.
New Location
RVA is an hour outside of Nairobi. It’s high elevation of 7500 feet. And the school is built on the escarpment of the Rift Valley. We have an amazing view of the valley from our perch. The air is fresh and it’s quiet. Those are the biggest differences for me. I don’t need a fan on at night to block out noises because it’s so quiet. Living in a capital city for seven years was very noisy and not fresh. Right now everything is green and blooming, very pretty.
New Home
Some paint color and new curtains make a huge difference in making a house feel like home. Bringing all of our furniture from Nairobi also helped. While we lived in Zeeland, the kids missed their African quilts on their beds, fresh home-made tortillas, and carrot sticks that taste like a carrot should taste. I missed fresh smoothies made from mango, pineapple, banana, and strawberries. This is living. We have a nice home that is big enough for us and has a private covered back porch. Last week I came down with a stomach bug and slept the whole afternoon on my outside couch. We have a love-bird cage that needs love-birds, a fish tank in need of fish, and a yard in need of a puppy. It’s going to be a good year.
Thanks for staying with us on this journey. My financial support of one time gifts was good the month of December. THANK YOU! I continue to hope that God will bring more supporters who commit to give monthly. But I don’t think I worry about money near as much as I used to. I am accountable for my finances, but since my loss of Ryan, money isn’t what matters.
Please pray for us and praise the Lord for all He has done,
Dawn and 4 amazing kids
Levi at water sports day
Seth hit the target and dunked another student
Chloe playing musical buckets
Caleb with shaving cream, I think.
A view of the valley and Mt Longonot. Can you see how steep it is?
We’ve been in our new home, in a new location, doing a new ministry at a new school for about six weeks.
New School for my kids
Rift Valley Academy (RVA)is suiting us just fine. My kids love the freedom of living inside a big fence with 450 other kids. RVA has 70 houses for the staff families to live in; it’s a big place. Each kid is adjusting to new friends and teachers. They love the after-school activities. Often at dinner time, we can’t eat because someone is missing. But it gets dark at 6:45 so they come home eventually, tired, happy and hungry.
New Ministry for me
I’m working full time as a school nurse at Student Health. So far, a bad head cold and a stomach bug have gone through the dorms and the families. To keep such illnesses from spreading, Student Health has guidelines for the dorms. Each dorm has dorm parents, kind of like an RD in college. If a kid has a fever over 100 degrees or other various symptoms, they can’t stay in the dorm. Student Health has room for 20 kids to sleep when they are sick. Often kids will come in for a few hours to get cold medicine and a nap, like missing a day of school in the States. Other times kids get sick in the middle of the night and need to come over to Student Health for the rest of the night. The nurses each have nights and weekends to be on-call for after hour illnesses.
That’s a brief explanation, but what I want you to know is that I like my new job. It’s challenging and very different than being a nurse in the states. I am getting to know kids as they come in to see a nurse. The staff are excellent and a great resource as I learn this new position. I don’t mind going into work and I like coming home.
New Location
RVA is an hour outside of Nairobi. It’s high elevation of 7500 feet. And the school is built on the escarpment of the Rift Valley. We have an amazing view of the valley from our perch. The air is fresh and it’s quiet. Those are the biggest differences for me. I don’t need a fan on at night to block out noises because it’s so quiet. Living in a capital city for seven years was very noisy and not fresh. Right now everything is green and blooming, very pretty.
New Home
Some paint color and new curtains make a huge difference in making a house feel like home. Bringing all of our furniture from Nairobi also helped. While we lived in Zeeland, the kids missed their African quilts on their beds, fresh home-made tortillas, and carrot sticks that taste like a carrot should taste. I missed fresh smoothies made from mango, pineapple, banana, and strawberries. This is living. We have a nice home that is big enough for us and has a private covered back porch. Last week I came down with a stomach bug and slept the whole afternoon on my outside couch. We have a love-bird cage that needs love-birds, a fish tank in need of fish, and a yard in need of a puppy. It’s going to be a good year.
Thanks for staying with us on this journey. My financial support of one time gifts was good the month of December. THANK YOU! I continue to hope that God will bring more supporters who commit to give monthly. But I don’t think I worry about money near as much as I used to. I am accountable for my finances, but since my loss of Ryan, money isn’t what matters.
Please pray for us and praise the Lord for all He has done,
Dawn and 4 amazing kids
Levi at water sports day
Seth hit the target and dunked another student
Chloe playing musical buckets
Caleb with shaving cream, I think.
A view of the valley and Mt Longonot. Can you see how steep it is?
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